Hi Kathy,
Your daughter’s dream is about something in a job situation or a ministry or motivation that went wrong. What I mean by “went wrong” is the following: She drove your car with you in the back seat, almost like a backseat driver giving suggestions to the driver and so on. Now all this is wrong. She is supposed to drive her own car, and there should not be a backseat driver. The pillow suggests that your comments or suggestions cause her to lose spiritual or natural insight as the pillow blocked her view.
The “up a mountain” and the “curve” symbolizing a time of difficulty and a time of changes. The talking causing distraction and causing her to take the curve too fast indicates the cause of the accident. An accident in dreams and visions represents the following: A vehicle accident in dreams and visions symbolizes dissension and disunity. When you and a very close person, usually your spouse or a business partner, disagree on something you may dream of a vehicle accident, especially after an argument or before an argument. The damage on the vehicle and the way the vehicle got damaged reveal more information on the specific circumstances. Take note of colors and other circumstances in the dream, or the vision. Specific colors will probably reveal the reason why there is disunity. Who was the driver? How was the vehicle damaged? How serious was the damage and exactly which body-parts of the vehicle got damaged? Did somebody get injured or did someone die in the accident? All these aspects tell you more about the meaning of this dream.
In this dream, it is clear that the two of you have a negative influence on each other. I think, especially your daughter probably There is definitely dissension and conflict and you obviously do not agree with each other on some or many issues. There is also denial involved. Both of you are under the impression that your relationship does not hurt you and that it does not cause spiritual or emotional damage but you are wrong. It does. Especially your daughter is hurting because of this. She being pale speaks of her deteriorating and suffering spiritually and even emotionally. Life is in the blood and a pale face is caused by poor blood flow. So, the conflict and the dissension cause your daughter to hurt.
The camp and retreat or conferences of the previous dreams and the camp in this dream speaks of spiritual training and equipping. The people involved who accused you of denying that you are in fact getting hurt may represent people close to you who know about your relationship and who are concerned about it.
I am glad we are using fictitious names on the Forum because I do not want to embarrass you. This incident may in fact speak of an isolated incident and so you may not be as depicted in this dream in a general sense. The dream might be about a single situation or incident, but it does appear that you are hurting your daughter by getting involved in a way that is not acceptable. She should be in charge of her own life and she should be driving her own car (I am assuming that your daughter is an adult).
Because dream interpreters usually do not know what the trigger was that caused the dream, we usually interpret it in a general sense, and that is what I have done with this dream. I really do think that your relationship puts pressure on your daughter and that she struggles a bit to cope with it.
Blessings
Fred