From what I understand, when God keeps showing you the same thing, it’s because you have failed to interpret it accurately. The Word says that in the mouth of two or three witnesses, let every Word become established. If this is emotional, then I believe God is showing you to deal with your thoughts on the matter by taking the promises of God to the situation. Pray that the eyes of His understanding are enlightened to know the true hope of his calling concerning his role as a Father and Husband. Pray for his thoughts and that He hears the voice of God and doesn’t follow another. If you have been asking God about the situation and He’s preparing your heart, then pray on the next move He would have you to take. Fear of this can actually manifest in our dreams as well.
So, in the Name of Jesus, regardless of how this is unfolding, I speak Life to the situation. If this friend is a believer, then ALL of her hope is in her true husband, and He holds the pieces of her life in His hands.