With these kinds of dreams, it is quite difficult to say. We have found that with life partners (marriage, finding a husband or a wife) and with new jobs and careers (finding a job and embarking on a career), people tend to be very emotional about it. They are very often quite excited about the prospect of landing that new job or a long-desired position or getting married to the dream-husband or dream-wife, and the excitement and longing and desires of people trigger many emotional restoration dreams.
Because of this, we seldom know when it is an emotional restoration dream or a message from God. When people are totally relaxed about these things (not at all emotional about it and almost never think about these things), then it is a lot easier to identify the trigger and the meaning of the dream.