Hi Chanevsg,
This dream appears to be an emotional restoration dream. Please read more about the purpose of emotional restoration dreams before you continue this interpretation, at this link: https://www.asrmartins.com/purpose-of-emotional-restoration-dreams/
The dream deals primarily with your concerns about the spiritual condition of your husband. The main concerns are the following: Distracting influences reaching him from the outside (television and radio) and being a victim of his own wisdom and analytical thought pattern.
We all know that evil uses the media to reach us in our homes. So although there is nothing wrong with the media, and although a lot of good comes from it, it is also used by evil.
In this case, the media causes irritating and unsettling confusion in the house. Either your husband is very open to influences through the media or the radio and television symbolize something similar.
The house in this case, your parents’ house, either symbolizes the good and holy influences that you received from your parents or it symbolizes your heavenly parents’ house (God the Father, Jesus the Son, and the Holy Spirit which is symbolized by our mothers in dreams and visions (when you dream of your mother it symbolizes the Holy Spirit or your real mother. See “Mother” in the dictionary). In this sense, the “parent house” may be your “personal kingdom of God” in your house or life. So God is the author of the good things in your dream.
It is clear that you feel that your husband brings a bit of confusion and chaos into the “house”. It bothers you because in the dream you seek a quiet place or more peaceful place in the house and that is the bedroom (God’s more intimate place, the inner room, the secret place of God), but even there the bad influences that your husband allows in or brings into the house have a negative influence on you (although not as much as with your more social life). So your social life (living room) and even your private life (bedroom) have some negative influences that you do not like that are allowed or caused by your husband.
The garden is beautiful but you see signs of deterioration. See “Garden” in the dictionary. Gardens speak of relationships. So although it appears that your relationship is still good (the good state of the garden), you worry that God may be a bit concerned that your relationship may not be looked after as well as it should (grass too short and signs of being withered). (In the dream, you and your husband are supposed to look after your parents’ house so you are responsible for it whilst you look after it) (Again I think this symbolizes looking after your spiritual house because even if it is yours we and our lives actually belong to God and we should look after it well and that includes our relationships)
So it appears that certain aspects of your relationship bother you a bit (emotional restoration dream) but as I said, the fact that the garden is beautiful and well cared for, means that this is not a big concern.
However, the increasing darkness and dim lights in the garden as the two of you walk into the house speak of an evil influence or a fear of evil influence on your relationship that may change things for the worse.
This flows into the following and more serious threat and that is the spider. Based on the symbols regarding the spider, your husband is completely unaware of the danger that he finds himself in when it comes to the spider.
In dreams and visions, a spider symbolizes one of the following: Either a person who has false suspicion, or a person who trusts in a spiders web (Job 8:14), and Isaiah 59:5 says that some people who refuse to repent believe in their own wisdom and a spiders web (Isaiah 59 deals with people who refuse to repent but they follow their own wisdom (verse 5 says that they spin a spiders web). See “Spiders Web” in the dictionary.
Isaiah 59:4-5 says that they trust in vanity and they speak lies and they spin a spider’s web). See “Spiders Web” in the dictionary.
These people trust in their own wisdom and activities like a spider that spins a web to catch its prey. They do this very successfully and they do not need God.
The color of the spider (brown and orange) symbolizes selfish ambitions or fleshly desires or striving or sin (brown) and emotions like sorrow, resentment, irritation, and people being indignant.
So your husband’s specific spider problem includes some of these negative conditions. The fact that he did not see or feel any danger in the dream speaks of him being completely unaware that his practice of refusing to repent and accept God as his savior, but, trusting in his own wisdom and clever activities will cost him his life or a lot of hurt and damage in the future.
The “being bit” and damage in the face speak of two things: If he does not repent, he will suffer greatly in a way that cannot be hidden from people. It will be all over his face. Everybody will see it.
This will lead to a fall. Losing your legs means losing power and ability (See the meaning of “Legs”). This means he will not be able to do the things that he used to do. Spiders are venomous and when it bites they will kill. So eventually, a spider mentality leads to spiritual death.
Cell phones speak of communication with God or our prayer life. It symbolizes the bad condition of your husband’s ability to make contact with God. Because of all the evil and bad influences in his life, the object or method of communicating to God was completely in such a confusing and broken state that, when this coming destruction hits, he will not be able to “contact” God in his time of “emergency”.
So either this dream is a true reflection of reality or it is just reflecting your fears. However, you will not experience these emotional fears for no reason. Your fears are probably grounded or based on what you see in his life.
Anyway, this situation is serious. You need to pray for your husband and you need to talk to him about his spiritual condition. Show him this interpretation. He is definitely not in a good condition spiritually and he needs to repent, otherwise, he is facing bad events and even destruction.