I to will give it a try, but will start from the end of your dream and work to wards the begining. This is what I get.
If you don’t choose to forgive your husband, you harbour unforgiveness and self-righteousness will dominate your thinking, in this case the enemy you are trying to rebuke will have ko affect, because you are claiming your righteousness, and ofcourse this is a work of the flesh, and we know that the flesh cannot compete with the spiritual, so you are fighting a loosing battle, you to have had weakness the dope and wine,,,the lord forgave you and his nature is in you therfore you to are Able to forgive, I can’t explain the meaning of all the things, but I kind of get what the dream is all about, I hope this makes sence to you.