My Dream To Get A Divorce

This week’s PRACTICAL DREAM ANALYSIS report is about a lady who wants to divorce her husband. She asked God about this and this dream is about the answer He gave her. Remember the analysis reports are part of our “Dreams and Visions Interpretation Course” program. These reports will be of tremendous value as it will slowly but surely train you and prepare you to master the gift of the “interpretation of dreams and visions”. You will eventually interpret dreams and visions correctly and according to Biblical principles. Of course it will become easier and quicker as you get more familiar with the different principles that govern dream and vision interpretation.

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I had a dream that I was in a hospital and was told I would have to stay for a month (note: in waking life, I have been having some health problems). I’m watching the nurse go to the Doctor and ask him if he had my test results. He comes to me and starts drawing (with a pencil) 2 very large interlocking circles, one not completely closed but with only a small gap. But then he traces over that circle over and over making it darker and asks me if I see that?

Then I’m in a hospital room and my husband is there and I tell him I have to stay for a month.

From there I was walking down my street to get my daughter from the bus stop with a blanket around me and I see the nurse (that was talking to the Doctor in the hospital) looking out of a neighbors window at the end of my street where the bus stop is and I was in knowing that I had to go back to the hospital after getting my daughter. My daughter’s friends then are coming from the stop but there was no bus and my daughter was not with them and I asked where she was and did she not get on the bus and they said yes she’s coming and I told them they were lying and then I woke up!

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(So, like I said in my waking like, I have been having some health problems. I have been dealing with things mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually for a very long time now with not just myself but with my 4 children (ages 23, 20, 14 , 9) and my husband of 15 years (father of only the younger 2 of the children). I am a believer and my husband is not and I realize it has been hindering my spiritual growth along with our children we have together. He doesn’t lead us spiritually and doesn’t think there is any importance in praying or going to church or even having God in our marriage or even in our life! This influence has our children have this same mindset . They are 14 and 9. I have been praying what is best for my children. My husband started his own business 9 years ago and has become so prideful, arrogant, selfish, and extremely judgmental and unforgiving! We live completely different lives. We have no communication at all. We are so unequally yoked and I’m miserable! I have lost all joy and happiness with myself and my life and with God. I feel numb and emotionless. I asked God for clarification on my marriage whether to stay or get a divorce because of the influence is has on my children the day before having this dream)

Dream Analysis: (As reported back to the person who had this dream)

Thanks for your request to interpret your dream. This dream is absolutely a very direct answer to your question the day before. Should you divorce? The answer is a very bold and very definite “No”. In fact, the Lord has another plan to change your circumstances. But let me not run ahead. You do need to see for yourself the meanings of the symbols of your dream. To make it easier for you I am going to copy and paste it from the dictionary with additional comments. You may go back to the online symbols dictionary to see for yourself.

Dream symbols analysis:

I had a dream that I was in a hospital and was told I would have to stay for a month (note: in waking life, I have been having some health problems):

When we dream of hospitals it indicates that we need or that we are about to receive spiritual medical attention and healing. Remember, spiritual healing is actually guaranteed according to the book of James Chapter 5. This implies that God (Jesus) saw your suffering and that He feels that this is enough. He is about to heal you and it is going to take a month (one month or 4 weeks symbolizes a specific (complete) time of fulfillment. This does not mean that your healing will literally materialize exactly in one month. It means that there will be a period of time during which your healing will be brought to completion (4 weeks or 1 month). It means that God saw your suffering but He guarantees that you will be healed from all the things you mentioned.

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I’m watching the nurse go to the Doctor and ask him if he had my test results. He comes to me and starts drawing (with a pencil) 2 very large interlocking circles, one not completely closed but with only a small gap:

The nurse symbolizes any person (in this case even an imaginary person) who requires from the Lord any detail regarding your illness (test results). Doctor – Jesus is the true Healer or our true doctor and the doctor in your dreams symbolizes Jesus Christ our Healer. It is now important to notice that Jesus does not focus on your diseases (test results) but He focuses on the real problem. Your marriage. Ring: A ring symbolizes a person’s commitment to another person. It speaks of unity or a covenant. Rings: Two rings becoming interlinked like a chain: Two rings becoming interlinked speaks of two people getting married. The problem is that one of the rings is starting to open. That will cause your marriage to fail and you getting divorced. I think you are that ring since you are the one who are considering divorce.

But then he traces over that circle over and over making it darker and asks me if I see that?:

The fact that Jesus is drawing over and over the ring which is slowly opening making it darker, speaks of Him asking you to remember the covenant you made with your husband. It emphasizes the fact that He does not want you to get separated or divorced. He wants you to remember his will regarding divorce. He does not want you to divorce. He wants you to stay married. Pen: A writing pen is used to write things down. We actually record things so that we do not forget it. A pen in a dream therefore symbolizes us pondering on past events and past incidents and bringing it into remembrance. The color of the pen will reveal more detail on the nature of the things we are pondering on. Pencil: A pencil speaks of a person who only remembers good testimonies on a short-term basis. Such people are like the Israelites in the desert who quickly forgot what God has done for them. It also speaks of a person forgetting things like the will and the word of God. The fact that Jesus is using the pencil to make this circle darker and prominent is because He wants you to realize that you have a short term memory when it comes to this aspect of his will. The fact that He asks you if you see him emphasizing the fact that the ring should stay interlocked speaks of him asking you if you understand that you should stay married and honor his word and his will. I assume that He did repair the area where the ring started opening (gap) because it emphasizes him not in favor of you divorcing your husband. Please let me know if my assumption is correct.

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Then I’m in a hospital room and my husband is there and I tell him I have to stay for a month:

After this your actual healing and restoration begins. It cannot happen whilst you are harboring thoughts of divorcing. It actually makes you sick and confused. That is why Jesus focused on this aspect and not your illness. He went for the root of your illness. Now the Lord knows exactly what you went through. He knows how you are suffering and how you suffered in the past. There is however a way out of this. You need to walk completely within his will to receive your deliverance and your healing. If you are obedient and if you do what He asks you will be restored spiritually but you will also be healed physically. A lot of your problems and conditions will actually disappear without you even having to ask for it. Some of the conditions will clear up by itself. The next verse will be crucial when you embark on this road or restoration and healing:  1 John 3:21-22 (NIV) Dear friends, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence before God and receive from him anything we ask, because we keep his commands and do what pleases him. This is a requirement. We need to be obedient in order to receive.

From there I was walking down my street to get my daughter from the bus stop with a blanket around me and I see the nurse (that was talking to the Doctor in the hospital) looking out of a neighbors window at the end of my street where the bus stop is and I was in knowing that I had to go back to the hospital after getting my daughter:

A “daughter” in dreams and visions speaks of spiritual growth or spiritual expansion and spiritual fruitfulness. This means that more aspects of spiritual development and growth and maturity are added to the existing spiritual condition. It speaks of growth in terms of spiritual maturity. God wants you to mature in this what He is asking you to do. He is asking faithfulness and consistency and persistence and perseverance. If you do you will be healed (going back to hospital after you received your daughter). The blanket speaks of you covering yourself in “rest” because that is what you long for (giving another person a blanket in dreams and visions symbolizes a person whose motive it is to offer another person a time of rest. See “Bed”. It speaks of the will of a person or the actions that a person performs in order to give another person a time of resting. In this case you probably covered yourself with a blanket because you long for spiritual and probably physical rest as well. This could however speak of you receiving spiritual and physical rest when you pick up your daughter (spiritual maturity and expansion). You really suffered the past few years and you want a bit of rest, which is understandable but. God has divine rest in store for you. A Biblical miraculous kind of rest. He wants to restore your spiritual strength and joy in him whilst serving him. Being a good mother to your children and a good wife for your husband is what God wants for you. I think the Lord knows something you do not know about your husband. Yes he is in the world and he is not saved yet but I am sure he will be one day.

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My daughter’s friends then are coming from the stop but there was no bus and my daughter was not with them and I asked where she was and did she not get on the bus and they said yes she’s coming and I told them they were lying and then I woke up!:

This part of the dream indicates that you do not believe this part above. You do not believe that God can change your circumstances and you do not believe He will. A bus speaks of the whole church or congregation or the global ministry of a congregation. A bus is a passengers vehicle. There is one driver and many passengers. This speaks of a ministry where the leader is supported by many people. Whatever the condition of the bus, the color and different incidents tell us more about the specific congregation or church. This part of your dream about the bus speaks of you not believing anymore that the church (body of Christ) really cares for you anymore. It speaks of you believing that the church cannot make any difference. The church failed you and God failed you. The church lost it’s power and God probably does not care anymore. You lost faith in the church and this may indicate that you lost faith in God as well. Remember however that there is a spiritual church (body of Christ) which is the kingdom of God who is actually an extension of the ministry of God. This part of the dream speaks of you finding a good Bible based church where you can be spiritually supported so that you can grow up spiritually so that you can be healed and restored. It is absolutely guaranteed that you will be restored and healed. In fact your whole family will greatly benefit from it. If you are already in a good Bible based church then you need to get your faith back.

The fact that your daughter was not on the bus and you not believing the promise that she is on her way support the statements above.


The devil is really trying to destroy your marriage and he is almost there. It will be a huge mistake if you allow this because you, your husband and your children will suffer a lot if the devil succeeds with his intentions. It appears to me that the solution is actually in your hands and at this stage not in the hands of your husband. You have the ability, the power and the anointing to turn things around for your whole family. This dream is an empowerment. You will be empowered and anointed to turn everything around if you are obedient in what God asks you. You need to stand up from this hole that the devil digged for you. Take spiritual authority and stand up. Pray like you never did before. Worship God like you never did before. Take back your joy and take back your life. Be persistent and be courageous. You will be amazed how your life is going to change for the better as from day one. God will be with you every step of the way. Treat your husband with love and respect although he does not deserve it at all. Start building bridges. Your family will eventually be totally restored

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Symbols and information to be checked and studied:

(I am including this practical exercise because people tend to miss very important symbols in dreams and visions. They assume that some symbols are not important and they also do not recognize hidden or obscure symbols. This exercise will also give you the opportunity to learn the symbols by heart)

Check if you could recognize all the different symbols in the dream (include all scenes) and check it out in the dreams dictionary. Were there any symbols that you missed or did not recognize?


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10 thoughts on “My Dream To Get A Divorce”

  1. I understand that I can give you my dream here and you will analyze it, OK? I dreamt that I am in a multi floor old, grayish building.There is like a Christian camp of women and little girls. I need to go to the toilet. With difficulty I find a flat toilet ring nearly in the floor. Then a woman jumps onto it! I search further for a toilet but a little girl goes and sits on it again before me. My need is high and I need the toilet for no 2. Woke up then.

    • Hi Christa,

      This dream is about you having a great need to get rid of inner emotional issues and sins in your life. A person going to the toilet is cleansing himself (his inner being) of bitterness, hate, unforgiveness and other bad and sinful emotional issues through confession and repentance. Please take note that this is not about normal sins or sinful acts. It is about forgiving people who harmed you in the past. They have hurt you and it was or were not easy for you. They or he/she probably caused a lot of emotional turmoil in your life (See “Toilet (Passing solids)” in the dream dictionary). The gray multi layer building symbolizes your church and all the activities you described in the dream speaks of you feeling that the church and other people in your church failed to help you get rid of all these emotional issues. It is as if other people are helped but not you. There is a hint that you might have been on a women’s camp or something similar and other people have been helped and you not (other woman and little girl). Gray (double minded) is a mixture of white (faith, truth, victory, etc.) and black (wrong, depression, unbelief, etc.) and that speaks of the situation in the church probably pertaining to this subject. There is also always a problem with the toilet or finding a toilet which speaks of you feeling that you just do not have the opportunity to find inner healing (which is only possible by means of repenting and confessing that you have bitterness and unforgiveness in your heart (which is sin) which then allows God to heal you completely and setting you free completely). You need to let go and forgive (no 2) and allow God to heal you.

      Blessings in Christ

      ASR Martins

  2. I had a dream that my husband sent me divorce papers and at the bottom it said “I’m done!!!!” in capitol letters that looked exactly like his writing in real life.. in the dream we were living with family members and my ex who was abusive just showed up there. This was before I was served divorce papers. Tried contacting my husband by texting in my dream but my phone wouldn’t let me. I wanted him to come home. Some other girl was there don’t know who but I was telling her what my ex was trying to do toward my husband because in my dream she was with one of them. I don’t remember which one all i know is we were standing there having an issue and when i told her she got mad and started crying and went underneath dining room table. In between all this before i got my divorce papers i was in living room at my families house playing with my youngest son and my other 3 were scattered playing. The other night i also had a dream about 2 exs.. one in this dream i just explained got mad and argued with me cuz i said no to him claiming kids on taxes. Then he started beating on me and my other ex after him in real life said “oh heck no” and beat up my kids dad for beating on me. All i know is i love my husband and i don’t like these dreams!! Thanks!

    • Hi there,
      This dream is not a message from God but an emotional restoration dream. It reflects all your fears and despair and other emotions about this situation in your life. God gave us the ability to have emotional restoration dreams so that we can be able to deal with challenging situations and the emotional challenges in life. Read more about this aspect of dreams at this link:
      Blessings in Christ
      ASR Martins

  3. Good day I hope all is well I have woken in shock I had a dream that I saw a prophet who have spoken in my life before telling me to leave my husband I was crying sayin why? Then a feet moments after my husband showed up and began chasing me with a knife I had to run to a local shop that I know to hide. Please can you help me to interpret this shoul I really divorce my husband

    • Your dream:

      No, you should not leave your husband unless he is a real danger to you. This is now if him threatening you with a knife is something that really happened before. Then this dream may be an instruction to get away from your husband because of the danger of being killed or seriously injured.

      However, this dream may be an emotional restoration dream. When somebody chases you with a knife in dreams and visions it means he aggressively throws words of criticism or insults at you. In such a case it has nothing to do with a knife but has everything to do with negative and insulting words of criticism. See the meaning of knife below:


      Hebrews 4:12

      For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.

      Ephesians 6:17

      And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God…

      Revelation 2:15-16

      So hast thou also them that hold the doctrine of the Nicolaitanes, which thing I hate. Repent; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will fight against them with the sword of my mouth.

      Like a sword and a dagger, a knife speaks of the Word of God. See “Sword” for a better understanding of this symbol.

      In a negative sense, a knife speaks of words of criticism or insults.

      So I suspect that there was a very aggressive and emotional argument between the two of you and this emotional restoration dream is just a reflection of your emotions, in which case it is not a message or does not mean anything. So you do not have to act on it. You had the dream merely to restore your emotions.

      If you need more information on the reason why we do have emotional restoration dreams and how we should act on them when they keep coming back, read this post: The Purpose of Emotional Restoration Dreams


      Basie Martins

  4. Thank you for responding yes we did have a heated argument where he was name calling and that’s another reason am wondering to leave because it’s been happening for years

    • Hi there,

      God only permits divorce in cases of infidelity. While some ministers and pastors may advise divorce when the safety of women and children is at risk – a stance I agree with – it’s important to note that this cannot be justified scripturally. Therefore, it’s not simply a matter of making a decision. You must prayerfully consider this, as divorce is considered a sin.

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